“Love is a light that has been fixed into a lamp post.” -Rumi
True love isn’t a light that are easy to describe, and any definition you might read about it will not do it justice. Most agree however that true love is something you only truly realize when you experience it and feel it for yourself. Sometimes you may want to be loved in a way that is not deemed loving by others. You could be afraid of putting yourself out there for fear of rejection or of being ridiculed for your desires. You may want to hide who you really are to avoid being criticized for your sexual desires. It is then that you are truly experiencing true love when you let it come to you freely.
If you are having difficulties with your sexual desires, you may want to find a way to express yourself creatively so that you can fully experience the feelings of true love. The first step to letting love come to you is to realize that when you are in a relationship with someone, there is always an element of attraction that forms. However, if this attraction is not nurtured and allowed to develop, it may become something you suppress or repress out of fear.
The reason that it is important to cultivate the romantic love that you experience is that it provides an outlet through which your unconscious programming will create the neural pathways that will allow your mind and body to respond to sexual stimulation with ecstasy. In order to fully enjoy romantic love, you must allow your mind to experience the feelings of passion, attraction, and sexual desire. Only then will it truly respond with attraction and desire in all of its natural functions.
When you are having difficulties allowing love to emerge from the depths of your consciousness, you may want to seek the help of a support group. Many individuals who have been in a situation where they felt disconnected from others due to their own addiction issues may benefit from working with a fellow sufferer on a daily basis. If you are able to meet regularly with another person who is experiencing similar issues, it will give you the opportunity to express your frustrations and learn new skills in dealing with the emotional aspects of love. Through regular expressions of affection and care, you will be able to gradually address the issue that may have kept you from expressing your love fully.
When you are looking for answers to the question of how do I get back my ex-boyfriend, don’t fall victim to old ideas about how relationships work. In reality, you are probably still attracted to your former partner. It is possible that the real love you experienced was not just physical attraction; it was also an emotional bond that was deeper than just physical attraction. You can reconnect with your ex-boyfriend through friendship if you are willing to invest some time, compassion, attention, and energy into making the effort to be friends. If you do not make an effort to be friends, the emotional bonds you once shared may be completely severed for good. This doesn’t mean that you should avoid your ex-boyfriend entirely because he has said he no longer wants to be in a relationship with you, but it does mean that it may take some time before you find real love again.